Navigating Post-Vacation Depression: Embracing Wellness After the Journey
The suitcases have been unpacked, the vacation photos are stored safely in your camera roll, and the feeling of relaxation still lingers in your mind. Yet, as you settle back into your routine, you can’t shake off the cloud of melancholy that has descended upon you. You’re experiencing post-vacation depression, a phenomenon that’s more common than you might think. In this blog post, we’ll delve into what post-vacation depression is, why it occurs, and most importantly, how you can navigate your way through it with self-compassion and positive strategies.
Understanding Post-Vacation Depression
Post-vacation depression, sometimes referred to as post-travel blues, is a psychological state that many individuals encounter after returning from a vacation. It’s characterized by feelings of sadness, restlessness, and even anxiety. This emotional shift can be puzzling, especially when contrasted with the joy and relaxation you experienced during your time away. The key to understanding post-vacation depression lies in recognizing the factors that contribute to its onset.
Causes and Contributing Factors
- Transition Stress: Shifting from a carefree vacation mindset back to the demands of daily life can be jarring. The sudden change in routine and responsibilities can trigger feelings of overwhelm and unease.
- Loss of Novelty: During a vacation, you’re exposed to new experiences, environments, and people. Returning to the familiar can make life seem dull in comparison, leading to a sense of monotony.
- Detachment from Stressors: Vacations often provide an escape from work-related stressors and other problems. The return to reality can rekindle those stressors, intensifying negative emotions.
- Emotional High to Low: The excitement and happiness experienced during a vacation create a natural high. When this high comes to an end, it’s not uncommon to experience a corresponding low.
Coping Strategies for Post-Vacation Depression
- Practice Self-Compassion: Understand that it’s okay to feel a range of emotions after a vacation. Treat yourself with kindness and acknowledge that it’s a normal response to a transition.
- Extend the Vacation Mindset: Integrate elements of your vacation into your daily life. Whether it’s enjoying exotic cuisine, lighting a candle, practicing relaxation techniques, listening to music or an audiobook, or engaging in a new hobby, maintaining a connection to your vacation experiences can help alleviate the blues. If your vacation was to a beach location, light a candle that reminds you of a beach sent, or recall the sound of the waves while applying the same sunscreen before going outside, once you’re home. If your vacation was in the mountains or city, search for a YouTube video with “sounds of the city”, or change your screen saver to a picture of the place you visited.
- Plan Mini Getaways: While long vacations might not be feasible frequently, planning smaller getaways or day trips can help break up the monotony and give you something to look forward to. A day trip doesn’t have to be far away, it can be as simple as exploring a new book store or coffee shop in a different town.
- Stay Active: Engage in physical activities that promote endorphin release. Exercise has a positive impact on mood and can counteract feelings of sadness. The exercise does not need to be intense. For those with chronic pain, walking or gentle yoga can release endorphins and have a positive impact on the body’s response to stress.
- Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness and meditation can help ground you in the present moment, reducing anxiety about the past or future. Meditations can be found on YouTube and apps on your phone. A mediative state does not need to be achieved through meditation itself- coloring, laying in a sensory deprived room (no sounds, low or no lighting), or listening to calm classical music or sounds of nature can also promote relaxation.
- Stay Connected: Share your vacation stories, photos, and experiences with loved ones. Connecting with others can help you relive the positive aspects of your journey. Start to discuss what you liked about this trip, and what you’d like to integrate into the new one. Connect with the feelings of excitement surrounding the idea of trying something new in the future, or re-visiting a familiar, comforting place.
- Set Realistic Expectations: Know that the transition back to normalcy will take time. Avoid placing unnecessary pressure on yourself to bounce back immediately.
Experiencing post-vacation depression is a natural part of the ebb and flow of life. Just as vacations offer an opportunity to recharge, facing the post-vacation period with resilience and self-care can pave the way for a smoother reintegration into your daily routine. By practicing self-compassion and adopting positive coping strategies, you can navigate the waves of post-vacation blues and emerge even stronger, ready to embrace the next adventure that life has in store.